Dear Ezenta,
I have been dating this girl for the past 10 years and we even have an 8 year old female child. Although we are not wed, we love each other and plan to get married shortly. But lately, I found out that she is bisexual….she notified me just this month. Should I part ways with her?
Anonymous.
costly A,
I am regretful about that, but then I think you should help her to get out of lesbianism. She told you about it; it is not like you caught her in the act…..what if she did not notify you? You assertion to love her, she needs you more now, do not turn away from her. She might have been trying to get out of it, who understands? I believe you should sit her down, ask her questions….how, why and when she got herself into such. Talk to her, support her. You can furthermore see a health medical practitioner who would counsel her and get more details from her. She desires you right now; help her to get out of it. Remember, she is the mother of your beautiful daughter, do not impel her away.
Wish you well,
Ezenta